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The lyrics present a child, Jason, grappling with his father's homosexuality and his mother's distress, all while being told he needs psychiatric help. The opening lines, "My father's a homo / My mother's not thrilled at all," immediately establish a domestic crisis centered on the father's identity and the mother's reaction. Jason's subsequent questions, "What about chromosomes? / Do they carry? / Will they carry? / Who's the homo now?" reveal his confusion and perhaps a nascent understanding of how identity is perceived and questioned by others, suggesting he feels caught in the middle of this familial tension. This tension is amplified by the adults' insistence that Jason himself is the one who needs professional help. His mother, Trina, worries incessantly and suggests he "see a psychiatrist," framing his solitary chess games and lack of social interaction as abnormal. Jason, however, questions this definition of normalcy, asking "What is normal?" His parents, Marvin and Trina, seem to project their own anxieties and societal pressures onto him, with Marvin offering to "pay the bill until you're old" for therapy. The repeated plea, "Jason, please see a psychiatrist!" underscores their desire to 'fix' something they perceive as wrong with him, rather than addressing the underlying family dynamic. The lyrics cleverly use Jason's intelligence as a shield and a point of contention. He asserts, "'Cause I'm too smart for my own good" and later retorts, "If intelligence were the only criteria / Then I wouldn't really need a psychiatrist, would I?" This highlights his awareness that his perceived 'issues' stem from external judgment and his family's inability to cope, not from an inherent flaw. The introduction of "Whizzer" as Jason's desired confidant, and Whizzer's eventual, albeit reluctant, agreement to Jason's request to go to therapy, "Absolutely, Jason / Okay, I'll go," offers a darkly comedic resolution where the child's plea for a specific, perhaps unconventional, form of help is met, even as the adults celebrate it as their victory. The song's effectiveness lies in its unflinching portrayal of a child navigating adult issues with a precocious, almost defiant, intellect. The rapid-fire dialogue and the stark, blunt language about the father's sexuality create a sense of unease, while Jason's sharp retorts expose the absurdity of the adults' attempts to pathologize him. The final scene, where Jason finally agrees to see a psychiatrist, but only if "he comes here," and the adults' relieved "He'll go!" suggests a temporary, perhaps superficial, resolution that leaves the core family conflicts unresolved, emphasizing the tragicomic nature of their situation.

Anthony Rosenthal - Pop, Broadway

My Father’s a Homo / Everyone Tells Jason to See a Psychiatrist

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[JASON] My father's a homo My mother's not thrilled at all Father homo = What about chromosomes? Do they carry? Will they carry? Who's the homo now? My father said that one day I'll grow up to be president And that idea's not so wild I don't live the life of a normal child 'Cause I'm too smart for my own good And I'm too good for my sorry little life My mother's no wife And my father's no man No man, at all [TRINA, spoken] Honey, why don't you go out and play? [JASON, spoken] No! [Jason begins to play chess with himself. Quickly playing one side, turning the board, moving a piece, turning the board again, etc.] [TRINA] Sweetheart, I worry Sweetheart, I do I worry a lot I worry a lot I worry a lot (spoken) I could take you to the Jewish center? [Jason mocks throwing up.] [TRINA] I think you like playing chess alone That's not normal [JASON] What is normal? [TRINA, spoken] I wouldn't know. (sung) Why don't you speak on the telephone With anyone, just get a friend Anyone Darling, please, see a psychiatrist He's quite a guy And I admire how he acts No one is saying you're a sick neurotic But you could find some help Hear me out, please Yes, you could find some help He could help you realize How confused you are is very clear Daddy's sincere But a schmo! You and I must trust our emotions Make no commotions Will you go? [JASON, spoken] No! [MARVIN] Jason, please see a psychiatrist He's just a psychiatrist I'll pay the bill until you're old [TRINA, MARVIN, JASON] Darling please listen to your father here (Jason) He's not a genius type (Please see a psychiatrist) (I won't go) Lord knows, but he knows (He's just a psychiatrist) What's true (I will not go) He chose a man who I think knows the answers (I'll pay the bill) To all your problems (Never never never never) Mendel understands (Until) (Never never never never) What's bothering you (You're old) [JASON, spoken] Forget it! [ALL] What a mess this is This family! Experts can see This is so! [Photo flash.] Photographs can't Capture our magic We're simply tragic! [MARVIN & TRINA] Will you go? [JASON, spoken] No! [MARVIN & TRINA] Jason, please see a psychiatrist! He's not [JASON] I won't say boo! [MARVIN & TRINA] Exorbitant And he's very smart! [JASON] If intelligence were the only criteria Then I wouldn't really need a psychiatrist, would I? [TRINA, spoken] No. [JASON] Would I? [MARVIN, spoken] No. [JASON] Just because you failed as parents [Trina gasps.] [TRINA] Get thee to a psychiatrist! [MARVIN] Hey, kid, listen! [JASON] I don't need [TRINA & MARVIN] He needs a psychiatrist! [JASON] I want [TRINA & MARVIN] A psychiatrist! [JASON] I wanna speak with Whizzer! [MARVIN] Speak with whom? [JASON] With Whizzer [MARVIN] With Whizzer? [TRINA] With Whizzer [JASON] With Whizzer [MARVIN, spoken] Oh my god... [TRINA, MARVIN & JASON] Whizzer! Whizzer! Whizzer! Whizzer! [Whizzer kneels between Marvin and Jason.] [JASON] Whizzer, do you think I should see a psychiatrist? [Whizzer laughs.] [WHIZZER] I'm not sure, Jason [Marvin flicks Whizzer at the back of his head.] [WHIZZER, spoken] Ow! (sung) Jason, maybe so [Trina clears her throat.] [WHIZZER] Absolutely, Jason [JASON] Okay, I'll go [WHIZZER] He'll go [JASON] I'll go [TRINA] He'll go! [JASON] If he comes here [MARVIN] If he comes here? [TRINA] He might come here [MARVIN] They don't make house calls [Whizzer's watch alarm begins beeping.] [WHIZZER, spoken] Oh! [Whizzer turns off the alarm.]

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Writers: James Lapine
William Finn

My Father’s a Homo / Everyone Tells Jason to See a Psychiatrist

My Father’s a Homo / Everyone Tells Jason to See a Psychiatrist

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