Song Meaning
On her wedding morning, Tabitha is anything but happy. A profound sadness has settled over her, a stark contrast to the expected joy of the day. The lyrics immediately establish this somber mood, with Tabitha confessing a "great gloominess spreading" instead of feeling "supremely glad."
The source of her despair is revealed through a clandestine eavesdropping session. Tabitha overheard her beloved, "Carry," expressing a desire to marry another woman, stating, "Ah, I'd far liefer marry You, Dear, to-morrow!" This confession shatters Tabitha's hopes and creates the central emotional conflict: her own wedding day is overshadowed by the man she loves choosing someone else.
The most striking aspect of the lyrics is Tabitha's self-sacrificing, almost masochistic, response. Despite her heartbreak, she declares, "O I'd give him to Carry, And willingly see them wed." This internal struggle is amplified by the knowledge that the other woman is pregnant: "But how can I do it when His baby will soon be born?" The narrator appears to be contemplating a future where she hopes for her own demise so that the other woman can have the man she loves.
This narrative's effectiveness lies in its raw depiction of unrequited love and devastating sacrifice. The lyrics don't offer a resolution, but rather a chilling glimpse into Tabitha's internal torment. The final lines, "After that I hope I may die. And then She can have him. I shall not mourn!" underscore the depth of her despair and the extreme, almost fatalistic, turn her emotions have taken.
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