That Loving Feeling

Song Meaning

The narrator initially describes a powerful attraction, but it’s not about physical appearance. Instead, it’s the way the other person holds them, creating a desire to stay. This intense connection is attributed to a specific, unique "loving feeling" that only arises when the other person is present, leading to an overwhelming sense of being "gonna drown in love." However, this initial euphoria quickly gives way to uncertainty and anxiety. The narrator expresses a need to understand the other person's thoughts and admits to being indecisive about their own feelings, questioning if they are "in love again." This internal conflict suggests a growing unease beneath the surface of the intense emotion. The lyrics highlight a stark contrast between the past and present. What once "seemed so grand" has now "gotten out of hand," indicating a loss of control. The narrator admits to a personal transformation, stating, "I'm not the kind of man I used to be," directly linking this change to the fading of "that feeling." The repetition of "Since that feeling's gone" drives home the central tragedy. The initial overwhelming love has not only disappeared but has left a void, fundamentally altering the narrator. The inability to make up their mind and the feeling of being out of control underscore the profound impact of this lost connection on their sense of self.