It Doesn’t Matter

Song Meaning

The narrator expresses a complex mix of gratitude and resignation regarding a distant relationship. They acknowledge the absence of the other person, even admitting the other person is likely not thinking of them, yet still finds comfort in the connection. This creates an immediate tension between the reality of separation and the narrator's internal feelings of warmth and appreciation for the friendship. The central conflict lies in the narrator's desire for continued connection despite the apparent lack of reciprocation or even the possibility of a future together. They state, "It doesn't matter if this all shatters," yet immediately follow with "But I'm praying that we're staying / Together." This juxtaposition highlights a deep-seated hope that persists even when faced with the logical understanding that "nothing lasts forever." A striking element is the narrator's self-awareness and apparent humility, particularly in Verse 4. They feel "embarrassed it overwhelms me / Because I don't deserve any" respect. This suggests a profound internal struggle where their appreciation for the other person's regard is tempered by a feeling of unworthiness, adding a layer of vulnerability to their plea for continued togetherness. Ultimately, the lyrics resonate because they capture the quiet dignity of holding onto something precious, even when its future is uncertain or unlikely. The narrator's focus on present gratitude and a hopeful, albeit fragile, prayer for continuity, rather than demanding reciprocation or dwelling on past hurts, makes their emotional stance feel both deeply personal and universally understandable.